When you are currently in a relationship, or had one in the past, you probably know that a love relationship only works out when both people (man and women) work together as a team. You and I know without any doubt that there are (or will be) ups and downs in it, but even then it's take two to survive it.
1. Accept each other's good and bad sides
Everyone falls, probably more than one time, in his lifetime . At the beginning you both have the time of your life with each other. After a while you'll start knowing each other better and better: his/her good and bad sides, what (s)he hates and loves, what (s)he likes and dislikes. You need to accept from each other those things, that is what makes him/her that person you loved at the beginning. It's never good to 'force'

your partner to do the opposite, it will make him/her feel bad and trapped in doing things doesn't like .
2. Give each other some space
Give your partner some space in doing the things that he/she loves to do in live. Those things gives him/her soul life and it's doesn't always have to mean that EVERYTHING that your partner does MUST be with you. Give him/her some freedom to breath outside your relationship. It must not feel like he/she is in a prison?!
How would you feel if someone told you, that you can't have the things anymore what you love the most? So.... Don't try to 'own' your partner as you do with a trading good! Give him/her some space.
3. Ajust yourself a little
When your partner dislike something about your attitude or habbit, try to self-evaluate that 'bad' thing and consider why your partner dislike that and if it's really that bad as he/she said. Try to ajust that thing, when it's possible, in a level that it won't bother your partner as much as in the current situation. For example (if I look at myself) when your partner dislike it when you come home and craw directly behind your laptop, you can consider (as I did) to do it at a later time (I mean the crawing-part, and not the 'comming home'-part

) It creates a better mood within your relationship. But remember, both partners needs to ajust a bit and not continuously only one of them.
Part 2 will follows later this week.
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